Wrestling fetish - How did you get 'started'?

[justme76]

There's really no suitable general wrestling talk section to post this in atm, so for now it might as well be here...

I've always been curious what causes or what triggered this fetish/'hobby' of ours.

When or how did you first become aware that F-F or F-M wrestling/fighting was the thing that turned you on?

How do you think this wrestling thing has formed in our brains? Did we come into this world pre-wired for this stuff or is it also some experience in our childhood that helped to trigger this preference?

Enjoying being dominated by a woman is a pretty broad and 'popular thing' among the guys, but being it done via a way of wrestling is not that common. I wonder what is the percentage of males in general population who share this fetish... 2%, 1%, 0.5%?

Feel free to share your personal experience and thoughts.


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To help this topic get started, I moved couple related posts here from the C&B thread to clean it up. and since moving posts here gets 'em to only re-appear chronologically, I had to do it manually or else they would show above this post and look confusing : )

LOL, it's a crazy world really in the big scheme of things, to any other joe seeing a woman wrestle a man has quite the opposite effect than it does with us. They just wanna have sex with them. We wanna get wrestled down and out. Then maybe have sex with them..

ya could not have said it better spandex i wonder why we have this fetish i knew i liked mixed wrestling since i was a kid and saw them mixed wrestling ads in my wrestling mags

Something stirred in me when i was younger, i remember seeing two women wrestling on tv, in a smokey hall, it was back in the early 80's and it must have been at least 5 year old footage, it was then i knew, whoa!! women wrestlers are sexy... Leotards and boots phew, these are my fave along with anything spandex. A spandex catsuited lady, wrestling another woman or even better a man, then well, i'm set.

amen !!!!

[jojodancer]

This cute girl that lived in my apartment complex would do her laundry once a week, and she would walk by when I was relaxing on my balcony. Eventually our "hello" and "how are you" small talk continued weekly until one day she dropped off her laundry and since I was out on my balcony, she just walked up my stairs and we started talking.
We had a few beers, I turned on some music, and we start flirting. Flirting turns into me making fun of her and poking her in the side.
"I'm gonna kick your ass" she says playfully, shoving me in the chest as we are sitting on the couch. I stand up to get a fresh beer. She grabs my leg as I am in midstride, and the easiest thing I can do is hop-to a sitting position down to the floor.
She gets down off the couch and on top of me. We wrestle a little bit, and I get on top of her, and pin her down. She is laughing as she tries to get me off of her. I said something cocky and start to stand up. Quickly, she gets up , wraps her arms around both of my legs, and starts rubbing and mouthing my cock and balls through my sweatpants, Looking right in my eyes as she does it. Now I'm distracted, and she's working me down to the ground. "Lie back" she tells me. I lie down on my back and she quickly schoolgirl pins me, Laughing, then sighs, she holds me down and frees my aching sweatpant rocket. She gave me a mix of subservient and dominant behaviors, which absolutely drove me apeshit crazy. We made crazy love all night.

A year later I caught an episode of Real Sex, where mixed wrestling is featured. Once I saw the Blake Mitchell segment, yeah, well, I nearly passed out, competely hot stuff.

[clasherdasher]

Always been into a variety of wrestling. As far as when goes, its been quite some time. Like Mixed, Pro, & a variety different styles actually..

[VCT]

An interesting topic realy.
I've been wondering about that myself several times.

I think it's a combination of both: It's in our genes and our society and childhood raising also has an influence I think.

I'm pretty sure that, if we would grow up with seeing women dominating men each day on tv and in real life, we wouldn't get excited about it anymore, by the time we reach the age when sexual arousement starts to kick in.
Because this would then be viewed as normal.

And obviously our genes have also something (or alot, better) to do with it scince the majority of the people don't get off on this.

For me personally, it just started on tv, like with most guys I guess.
At a certain age, which I can't remember exactly, but it was fairly early (around 12-14 maybe).
I remember I started to experience a double feeling of excitement and even angryness when I saw women beat up men on tv.
I always got a little angry in the sense of "no way that's not possible" and to the guy getting beaten "what a loser, shame on you whimp" and stuff like that, haha.
But at the same time there was more to it, there was this strange feeling involved, which I came to understand better gradually as the months/years went by, that it was actually excitement/sexual arousement.

And then there was the start of the internet for me, with that 56k modem
Surprised to find that there were actually sites out there that focussed on this form of female domination.
Actually, what triggerd me to activeley start looking for this material was probably the James Bond movie Golden Eye.
I haden't seen the movie yet, but I read an article in some tv magezine about what Famke did to Bond in this movie.
So I made sure to watch this movie on tv a few days later, and my god, this really sparked the fire in me. That was the pinnacle of femdom for me so far, and what made me start actively looking for more on the internet.

Good times...

[MWspartan]

Obviously its quite rare to see women wrestling men in movies, especially women using scissors holds. but in James Bond films this has happened twice. In Golden Eye as you said and also in Diamonds are Forever. Who knows, Diamonds are forever might have been the first head scissors in a movie.

[justme76]

Recently while fixing my old father's computer, I came to an interesting discovery... his browsing history was full of wrestling sites...
Go figure - didn't think this stuff would be hereditary like that. I guess I got those genes from somewhere
Curious but not wanting to embarrass him, I joked about it, and he joked right back, saying he watches it for 'fun'... I left it at that, without admitting that it was my fetish as well.

Also, and while this happened decades ago, I still have a vivid memory of my sister-in-law sgp'ing my brother on bed.
They were freshly married back then, and it could have been just a playful thing... although, with family history of this fetish now pretty clear, I'm not sure. I never asked my brother about this either. He did pick his wife well, though.. she played volleyball a lot, and her legs were killer.. something like Sunfire's almost (without upper body so developed though)

[Noob1987]

As bizarrae as this may seem, my fetish started before I even knew anything about sex, but I knew what made me pop a boner, and for some reason, that was wrestling. My brother was watching a WWF PPV on VHS, the first Survivor Series, which featured a survivor tag team match between two factions of female wrestlers. I didn't understand what I found so fascinating about it, I assume it was the spandex costumes and how badass the girls seemed, but it did something to me in the pants, especially if I humped up on something. By the way, I was a little over 3 years old at this point. I shit you not. Looking back on it, I'm downright embarrassed to think my parents saw me doing these weird ass things, and I even remember getting a raw spot on my wiener from doing it too often.

Now, it's developed into a full-on obsession. In 8th grade, me and my buddy used to go down the girl down the street's house and wrestle her and her girlfriend on her trampoline. It turned me on like CRAZY. Since then, I've been dying to get a girl that will actually do this with me, but I'm a bit ashamed to even ask for such a bizarre request. My current girlfriend is sexy as hell and built like a brick-shit house, but definitely not in a manly way. She has a body very similar to Lee Ashley of Scissorvixens.com, but a little more built muscle wise, weighing in at 140 lbs. and standing 5'7. I've playfully wrestled her a couple times, but have never been able to fully confess that it really gets me going, despite the not so subtle flesh rocket stabbing into her. I have to find some way to get her on board with this, lol

[wrespet]

I turned in to mixed wrestling because of an incident hapenned when I was about 11 years old. In that I was in school gymnastic team. Somedays after practices our coach organize various non gymnastic competitions like running competitions, hurdles..etc. One day it was wrestling and he put around same age 2 guys/2 girls on the mat to wrestle. Since when he got to me, all the guys hav already wrestled, he put me against a girl. He selected a girl who is 2 years elder than me. In those ages guys are not so big and since she is elder than me she was about 6'' taller than me. She easily over power me and pinned me. It was an embarrassing but it really turned me on. Since then I am interested about mixed wrestling/fighting.

After that every time when I see a woman wrestle or fight with a man on tv it reminds me my experience and they turn me on.
Sheena, Xena, Some Julie Strain's movies, Fist of Angels, Naked Weapon were some of them.

When I saw women's wrestling (Specially Lita, Gail Kim, Sable and Trish Stratus) in WWE, I tried to search those stuff in internet and I came across sites like markf30, grappling girls...etc.

When every time I see a man beaten by a woman, it doesn't matter it's scripted or real, it reminds me my real life experience I had and how embarrassing and helpless it was under her authority.

[wrespet]

My current girlfriend is sexy as hell and built like a brick-shit house, but definitely not in a manly way. She has a body very similar to Lee Ashley of Scissorvixens.com, but a little more built muscle wise, weighing in at 140 lbs. and standing 5'7l

have u seen lee ashley's page in scissor vixens? As they say she has got 13.5'' biceps and 23'' thighs.

1st of all do u guys really think they r correct measurements? b'cos even though I havn't seen her for real or in a video, as I hav seen her in those preview pictures it doesn't look so big

So when u r saying ur girl friend is bigger muscle wise r u saying she has biceps bigger than 13.5'' and thighs bigger than 23''?

[Noob1987]

Y'know, wrespet, it's very hard to say. She has such a muscular physique from swimming in high school and hitting the gym pretty hard with me the past 8 months. I make sure she does those squats and calf raises, haha. She's very defined in her legs. They're rock solid, but not in a disgusting, body-builder way. She has a very different build, that's for sure. She just looks like she'd crush Lee Ashley if they were to grapple, but, then again, I have never seen her in person, so I wouldn't actually know, and she does have an inch on her height wise, apparently.