ThunderDomination

The first time I really lost to my girlfriend I was in denial, too. I truly didn't believe that it had actually happened, or that she could beat me if I really tried. At first, I let her win and we both knew it, but she surprised me when she told me that she knew she could beat me for real anyway, no matter how hard I tried. In fact, she said I let her win because I was afraid to face the possibility that I might try my hardest and lose anyway. I thought her attitude was arrogant and dangerous. She thought I was the arrogant one for assuming I could win. How did I know that my best effort would be enough if I always held back? Did I hold back at the point I thought I'd start to win, or at the point I'd have to face the fact that I couldn't win? We agreed to really wrestle and she had me pinned in about 10 seconds, her legs scissored around mine as she pinned my arms down by the wrists while digging her elbows into my biceps. I was completely helpless and we both knew it. I told myself I had been surprised and sexually distracted, and that in a real fight, we'd start standing up instead of on our knees. So we tried again starting from a standing position. In a flash, she grabbed my wrists as she jumped forward, knocking me onto my back and landing with her knees on my biceps as she yanked up on my wrists. I screamed out in pain before I could stop myself. I was humiliated, but couldn't help being turned on, with her thighs straddling my chest and her crotch almost in my face. I tried to reach up and grab her with my legs, but she elbowed my thighs as I did and pulled up harder on my wrists, digging her knees deeper into my biceps. Again, she had me beaten in 5 seconds and we both knew it. When I admitted to losing, but told her she hadn't really beaten me up, she told me she could of, and I was intimidated enough at that point to leave it at that.

Hmm..I think I could beat you too. Your girlfriend strong?

She was smaller than me and lighter, but in very good shape. My arms were stronger than hers, but her overall body was stronger than mine, especially her legs, and her arms were close in strength to mine. I thought she was surprisingly strong. I'm 5'9" and was about 130 back then, a bit thin. She's 5'3" and weighed a little over 100lbs, and there was no fat on her body at all.

We actually wrestled lots of times after that, he never could beat me. I work out a lot nowadays.

At the time, I worked out little, but he was very weak to me. I scissored him and ass wedged him He was humuliated in my opinon.

My ex beat me every time after we wrestled for real, too, and she told me that I wasn't really much of a challenge for her. She was the physically dominant one in the relationship from the beginning, and threatened to beat me up in public if I didn't do some of the things she told me to or behave the way she wanted me to. She also forced me to accept that if she could beat me up, there were probably a lot of other girls who could, too, and who thought the same way she did. I'm in better shape than most guys, but most of my male friends thought I was being ridiculous when I tried to talk about this. They just couldn't accept it, so I dropped it, but my ex could have beaten the crap out of almost all of them. It was so humiliating it took me a long time to really accept, but eventually I got over it and got used to being physically subordinate to a girl. To her credit, she didn't abuse or embarrass me nearly as much as she could have, and she never seriously hurt me, no matter how angry she got. She also never made me feel like I was inadequate as a boyfriend just because she could beat me up.

I work out more now, and am physically bigger and stronger, but I'm still not sure I'd be able to beat her, as she still works out, too. How tall are you, and how are you built? If you think you could beat me too, you probably could. My ex beat me fair and square, but I have to mention that sexual distraction was an advantage for her. I couldn't help being aroused by her or by with the contact with her, and this was a huge distraction and embarrassment in itself. She probably would've beaten me anyway, but this definitely gave her an additional edge.

My girlfriend dominates me every time that we wrestle. While I'm not sure that either of us give 100%, it is clear that she would destroy me every time. She enjoys being able to humiliate me and torments me with her physical superiority despite her petite and slim body type. For my part, I am perfectly content and extremely aroused each and every time she demonstrates yet again how she can beat me down while wrestling.